September 30th

September 30th will always be a tough day for our family.  On that date in 2013, my sister's husband died of a massive heart attack.  He was 49 years old.  Some of you know my sister, Tammy.  Like most of our family, she is a school person. At the time of Jim's death, Tammy was principal at McGary Middle School in Evansville, Indiana.  Her four kids were ages 23, 20, 13 and 6.  As Tammy said just the other day in a gross understatement, "It sucks."

And it does.  But with humor and grace and toughness and an impressive repertoire of swear words, my sister keeps moving forward.  She just gets up every single day and keeps going, even when all she wants to do is hide inside Jim's oversized Packers jersey and bury her head under the pillow.  Watching Tammy navigate this grief, I have learned so much about the kind of person I want to be, and I have also learned something important about leadership.  In remembrance of Jim and in honor of my sister's strength, I wanted to write about it today.

Here's the thing.  Tammy has not survived by denying the pain or acting like everything is okay.  She has talked about it and written about it and let people in.  Not long after Jim's death, in Tammy's weekly newsletter to her teachers, she wrote about how she was feeling and helped the staff understand what she needed from them and what they could expect from her.  She was real with them.  She let them see her at her weakest point, and what guts and strength it took.

For me, the lesson here is that it is okay to let those you lead see who you are--to let them see your heart.  It can bridge divides and build community and remind us that we are all human.  For teachers, sharing your heart with students is just as powerful.  Our students need us to be strong and steady for them, but strength and emotion are not mutually exclusive.  Showing students how we manage our own emotions and find ways to keep moving forward is a powerful model for their own lives.

So today, I will share with you that I am sad about my brother-in-law, Jim Dexter, even though it is hard and scary to share something so personal.  Today, my heart and mind are with Tammy, Elizabeth, Everett, Jordan and Jake.  My thoughts are with Jim's mother and his brothers and sisters, who remind me so much of our own family.  Today, my parents, my brother and I will all call Tammy and check on her, and we will swallow the lump in our throats and try not to cry.  Like my sweet, sassy, strong sister, Tammy LaGrange Dexter, we will keep moving forward. That's what she taught us to do.

What Will Your Verse Be?

My friend, Jacquie, once told me that she was not talking to me again until I had watched the movie, Moulin Rouge.  Convinced that no one should walk the earth without having seen this film, she hounded me until I watched it, and I became a believer.  That is just how I feel about the movie Dead Poet's Society. It combines several things I love:  teachers, students, poetry, and Robin Williams.  When I am feeling discouraged and allow cynicism to creep in, this movie is medicine.  To steal a line from the script, it fills my soul.

There are all of these moments in the film where Mr. Keating, played by Robin Williams, builds a relationship with his students and inspires them to risk failure and to dare greatly. My fellow Dead Poet people will instantly connect when reminded of the opening scene in Keating's English class. As the high school boys gaze at old photographs of students from long ago, Keating reminds them how quickly time passes.  He whispers, "Carpe diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary." (I just got cold chills writing that, but then we established last week that I have nerdish tendencies.) From the very first day of class, he finds a way to make his message relevant to kids' lives. 

In the film, Keating uses poetry and words to connect with his students--to push them to be brave, to swim against the stream, and to find their voice.  In our school, I see teachers doing this for their students every day in diverse ways.  I was in a classroom today, and on the door the teacher had posted a letter to her students.  "I trust you," it said.  "I believe in you..."  And the teacher's actions matched her words--she interacted with students lovingly and respectfully, and they returned that respect. It was something to see.  The same thing happened in movie-land with Mr. Keating.  He listened to his students, and he challenged them to be their best selves.  Keating's lines from the movie that follow (my favorites) provide a challenge for us all.

"We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. Medicine, law, business, engineering-- these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love... these are what we stay alive for! To quote from Whitman, 'O me! O life!... of the questions of these recurring; of the endless trains of the faithless... of cities filled with the foolish; what good amid these, O me, O life?' Answer. That you are here - that life exists, and identity; that the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse. That the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse.

"What will your verse be?"

We Love Lucy

Warning:  geeky, gushing English/reading teacher talk follows. #hopeyoustillreadit

It is safe to say that Perry Central Elementary could form a fan club for Lucy Calkins and her work in teaching students to read and write. We are #ruos and #tcrwp stalkers on Twitter.  We call her by her first name as if we are old friends.  The thing about Lucy is that her work does not just teach kids to be literate--that is a drastic oversimplification of what she does.  She treats students as if they are capable of contributing something valuable to the classroom and to the world.  And they do.  In this balanced literacy model, students think deeply about text and about their own writing because they believe that their voices matter.  Perhaps it is because the approach aligns with our philosophy of relationships being the foundation for learning that Lucy Calkins's work has resonated with us. 

Many of our elementary teachers have been implementing the Lucy Calkins Units of Study for Reading since the start of school.  These units are written for K-5, and they pair well with the Units of Study for Writing that she also developed.  The units require a tremendous commitment because they are not cookie-cutter, simple lesson plans with cute, quick activities.  They are robust lessons that teachers are reading and re-reading prior to implementation.  That does not mean teachers check their brains at the door, rather they use the lessons as a guide and springboard for reading and writing in their classrooms.  

It makes me smile to see teachers' Lucy books with dog-eared pages and post-it notes sticking out in all directions and color-coded highlights.  It makes me smile to listen to the questions teachers and students are posing, to see the light in kids' eyes and watch how they lean in as the teacher reads aloud.  It is not that the Units of Study alone are responsible for this--we have built a strong reading curriculum over the years, and we have talented, dedicated teachers who are constantly looking to get better.  That is what these units are helping us to do--become stronger, more thoughtful practitioners.  Beautiful things are happening in classrooms in little Leopold, Indiana, and it is a joy to behold.  

The following are some links to RUOS resources in case you are not from PC and happen to read this blog.  If you are already using them, you might find something to keep pushing you forward. If you have been reluctant to try the units or worrying about how to "fit it all in", then maybe these resources will help you take the leap.  

Videos by Lucy Calkins for each grade level:  http://readingandwritingproject.org/resources/units-of-study-in-reading

Videos and samples of student work (reading and writing):  http://readingandwritingproject.org/resources/student-work

Book Lists:  http://readingandwritingproject.org/resources/book-lists

School Spirit

Last week, we entered a competition about school spirit, and our students and staff did a great job of demonstrating it last Friday with the sea of green attire and hallway decorations.  The whole thing got me thinking about school spirit and how it is part of what makes Perry Central a special place.

The Perry Central Commodores grew from the consolidation of many small schools that had to give up a bit of their identity to become part of something greater.  It took courage and vision to bring together this school community back then, and we are grateful for those who led the charge.  We take pride in Perry Central, and most of us who have grown up amid the rolling hills of rural Perry County (or landed here by some stroke of luck) identify ourselves by our school.  We are Commodores; we bleed green.  One needs only attend a Perry Central athletic event to see this in action.  No matter how good or bad our team, our community shows up to support it.  That is pretty special.  

That said, true school spirit, to me, is a balance of pride and humility.  Sure, we want to win, and we celebrate when we do.  But what makes me really proud is when I see our students and community stand and clap during the other team's starting line up.  What makes me proud is when we stand and applaud for an opposing team's injured player as she leaves the court. What makes me proud is when our students cheer for their team, rather than against the other team. That is school spirit, but more, it is an outward demonstration of who we want to be--the kind of people who treat others right, regardless of whether that kindness is returned.  While we have all seen a moment here and there where we failed in this endeavor, the vast majority of the time, Commodore Spirit shines as an outward symbol of who we are at heart.  For all my fellow Commodores out there, thanks for being part of that tradition.  And as Mr. Edd Ransom would say, "Go Big Green!"  

More Twitterverse Talk

The Perry Central school community is getting really good at this Twitter thing!  It is so exciting!  Twitter and Facebook are becoming vehicles for connection and learning and praise and building positive relationships.  I wanted to take a moment in this blog to say thanks to all who have jumped on board and to share with you some highlights of the land of social media from just this week (in case you missed it) and how they served different purposes.

Twitter/Facebook to Build Community
There is nothing that means more to me than when someone says something kind about one of my children or shares a story about something they said or did.  Those of us who work at school are fortunate to get to see our kids from time to time and to interact with their teachers, but many parents seldom get that opportunity.  Social media is a channel for sharing kids' school lives with their families.  For you Tweeters out there, if you have your Twitter account connected to Facebook, it would be awesome if you would share the Facebook post to the Perry Central Facebook page.  Many of our parents are on FB but not Twitter, yet.  Here are some examples from this week.

Twitter to Connect with Educators
Using hashtags is a great way to connect with other educators who are working on the same things. Our K-5 teachers are implementing a new reading approach, using Lucy Calkins's Reading Units of Study, which are awesome!  The #ruos hashtag connects them with other teachers across the country who are also using the units.  We have discovered related chats and a new RUOS Facebook page by reading the hashtag.

Kris Walsh connected with the Project Lead the Way community with this Tweet.

Twitter and Facebook to Spread Your Message
Others will build their perception of you and our school based on your tweets.  I loved this tweet from Perry Central volleyball this week...what a powerful message!

Twitter for Learning

It is amazing how much great learning can spring from a quick scroll through the Twitter feed.  Share your finds with your PLN!  Phil and Jody shared these resources this week.

So thanks to all of you for jumping on board!  We are planning social media help sessions next week on Wednesday and Thursday. We'll email the details soon.  Have a great Labor Day weekend!